COMMON REASON PEOPLE CHEAT 2

Last week we talked about the loss of bond as one of the reasons people cheat.

But you may have seen or heard of couples that are happy and yet one partner strays. The revelation of such affairs can be hurtful to the betrayed partner, sometimes leading to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

The reasons people could cheat despite being happy … Read the rest

COMMON REASONS PEOPLE CHEAT 1

 If your spouse cheats, even if your sex life seems to be okay, you may be confused. Why would he/she cheat if sex is not the issue? The surprising fact is that cheating is mostly not about sex.

There could be some other missing factor in your marriage that leads to infidelity. Let’s take a look at a common reason … Read the rest

THE ZEIGARNIK EFFECT

A newlywed young Jewish woman; Bluma Zeigarnik sat in a café in Vienna and watched as professional waiters listened and took large orders from a good number of people without writing anything down. Then she watched as the waiters hurried from table to kitchen to table remembering everything the customers asked for.

However, when she interviewed the waiters after they … Read the rest