PLEASURABLE SEX IN MARRIAGE (II)

Last week we looked at two factors that affect sexual satisfaction in a marriage relationship.
The two factors we looked at where;
The health of the relationship itself.
Trust
Today we will be looking at yet another factor;

Communication; communication plays a huge part in sexually satisfaction, one’s partner may
be unaware of what he/ she does to turn on … Read the rest

CONFLICTS; THE PATH TO MARITAL BLISS

Growing up, I consistently heard from people I respected that they hadn’t had conflicts in their
marriages. I began to believe that a conflict-free marriage was a successful marriage. Thank
God, I learned the error in this belief before getting married. Otherwise, I would have judged my
marriage bad or not right because we have conflicts.


When preparing intending couples … Read the rest

PLEASURABLE SEX IN MARRIAGE (1)

Sex is regarded by many as one of the two most sensitive issues in marriage, as a result, we
find many articles and videos advocating that people become more proficient in
lovemaking/sex, they advocate and promote different sex positions and styles, they
sometimes suggest the use of sex toys, pornographic materials and masturbation as ways to
spice up sex. The … Read the rest

STARTEGIC PARENTING 2

Me: since I was caught up with what your sister was doing, is there a way you could have got my attention without screaming?

Daughter: I don’t know

Me: think

Daughter: I could have come close and touched you

Me: beautiful, what else?

Daughter: mummyyyyy!

Me: what else, just one more

Daughter: I could have waited for Makiya to finish … Read the rest

STRATEGIC PARENTING 1

‘Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it’ proverbs 22:6

This book of ageless wisdom advises the training of children but how?

Many parents are proud when their kids can recite a Bible or Qur’anic verse(s), we call them Pastors or Imams, insist on sending them to … Read the rest

LOVE, MARRIAGE AND HIDDEN AGENDAS (FINAL)

It has been two weeks since Chinedu and Nneka his wife starting being intentional about meeting each other’s needs. Two nights ago, as the couple talked just before bedtime, they felt a strong sense of connection. Chinedu confessed to his wife at some point during the conversation that he had never felt this close to anyone.

Nneka was excited, her … Read the rest